"She wasn't doing a thing I could see, except standing there, leaning on the balcony railing, holding the Universe together"
I've been with many women in my life.
I did it for the experience, so that one day I would know how to manage "the relationship of my dreams" without fucking it up.
I'm not ashamed of it.
I never wanted to marry young.
Just look at our society and it's easy to see why.
In fact, I feel sorry for the person who believes that love just "happens" to people and then last's forever.
This is not reality.
Love instead, is more like a flower, that when plucked and possessed eventually loses it's fragrance.
The "feeling" of love is managed by the laws of nature, but it's maintained by a conscious effort from both people to awaken to the truth of who they really are beyond the physical.
This takes time and a very unique type of person.
Based on my experience, here is the type of woman I believe would make for a happy, relatively non confrontational relationship into old age, long after the "overwhelming" physical attraction wears off.
Sorry if I repeat myself a few times. Probably means it's really important. There are evolutionary reasons why many things on this list makes sense, even if you are offended by them.
Bi-sexual or curious about being with other women
Not overly jealous
Likes sex but not too experienced
Would make a good mom
Has a good family example
breathtakingly beautiful (to me)
Not a slut or surrounded by tons of men.
Has more girlfriends then guy friends
Interested in personal growth
Healthy eating habits - “almost” vegetarian
Socially Intelligent and intuitive
Self starter, educated
Deep lover once you get to know her - doesn’t fall in love too fast
Speaks english and another language I don’t know
Good with kids
Has good values
Homebody, likes to relax at home, enjoys cooking good food and watching interesting movies
Loves to read
Doesn’t drink too much
Enjoys to read
Doesn’t like to go out all the time
Pushes me to succeed
She is Awakened
Loves to cook
Loves to read
Loves to fuck
Loves to cuddle and be touched
Not too needy
Beautiful skin and smells good all the time
Long legs, slender, fresh and clean
Innocent but adventurous
Good taste in movies and books
A good balance of being able to teach me as much as I can teach her
Teaches me a new way of being and seeing the world (my feminine side)
I enjoy taking interest in things she’s interested in
I enjoy and am motivated to be romantic towards her
Between the ages of 24 to 29
Enjoys working out or being active
likes to travel to exotic places
Loves to work
Her work is complimentary to my work
So we can work together and join forces
She is respectful and gives me my place
Also demands her place
Takes good care of herself
Quiet at times (not always feeling the need to break the silence)
Comfortable silence with her
Amazing to fall asleep with, and wake up next to
Not a sugar (junk food) fanatic
Forgiving (doesn’t hold long grudges)
Good taste, good style, good fashion
Not (too) needy
Has an interesting story
Comes from an middle to upper class family
She is close to her family
Speaks english and other language
I get along with her parent(s)
Parents are generous with her, but she is not spoiled
She is also generous
Has connections with awesome people
Enjoys resting relaxing after hard work
Understanding, always tends to “get it” and act accordingly
Shorter then me
I love her smell, intoxicating
Good sense of fashion
Extreme attraction when we see each other